When Everything Looks Right but Feels So Wrong

Kevin Palmieri on chasing success, facing burnout, and finding real belief

Author

Matt Gilhooly
September 10, 2025

Hey friends,

Kevin Palmieri had what most people dream of — a six-figure salary, admiration, and a life that looked like success on the outside. But inside, he was struggling with deep self-doubt and burnout. In this episode, Kevin shares how a near-suicide moment became the doorway to a new kind of living — one built on real belief and purpose.

Kevin’s story reminds us that the markers we chase — money, status, achievement — don’t always fill the gaps we feel inside. Sometimes it takes hitting rock bottom to start rebuilding, borrowing belief from others until we can create our own foundation. What Kevin’s journey teaches us about self-worth and growth might just shift how you measure your own success.

THREE things to think about

  • True success isn’t just what you achieve but how you feel about who you become in the process.

  • Borrowing belief from mentors or friends can be a powerful step on your journey to trusting yourself.

  • It’s okay to outgrow roles, jobs, or identities that no longer serve your mental health or happiness.

TWO things to ask yourself

  • What parts of my life am I holding onto out of fear rather than joy?

  • Where could I start trusting my own voice, even if it feels shaky at first?

ONE thing to try this week

Set aside 10 minutes daily to check in with yourself — write down one small win or lesson, no matter how tiny. Track it and notice your growth.

Thank you for being part of this community where we learn and grow together. I’d love to hear your thoughts on Kevin’s story or how you’re building your own self-belief. Hit reply and share your biggest takeaway or challenge.

Warmly,

Matt

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